Media Resources

Stories for all stages

This page from ARC has personal stories for the following topics:

  • Continuing pregnancy after diagnosis of foetal anomaly

  • Ending pregnancy after diagnosis of foetal anomaly

  • Ending pregnancy for maternal health reasons

  • Medical testing in pregnancy

Stillstandingmag.com
Online stories from writers dealing with the loss of a child and the aftermath of loss. Also covers topics like relationships after loss and infertility

Activities

Some parents find these activities helpful:

  • Yoga

  • Acupuncture

  • Exercise

  • Meditation

  • Grief yoga (online sessions available)

Podcasts

  • Shapes of Grief - conversations with people who have experienced loss and navigating grief

  • Grief encounters - Irish podcast covering loss in general, not just baby loss, but has episodes on trauma

  • Dad still standing - 2 dads talk about their experiences with different types of baby loss and the ways men grieve. Specially for dads (but approved by mams too)

  • Time to talk TFMR - talks with parents and healthcare professionals. Covers Includes TFMR for maternal health reasons and multiple TFMRs

Books for children

The Paper Dolls by Julia Donaldson

Waiting for Wolf by Sandra Dieckman

The Fall of Freddie the Leaf by Leo Buscaglia

Muddles, Puddles and Sunshine: Your Activity Book to Help When Someone Has Died by Diana Crossley andKate Sheppard

The Memory Tree by Britta Treckentrup

I Miss You: a First Look at Death by Pat Thomas and Lesley Harker

Books for adults

Meeting Grief with Mindfulness and Compassion by Nollaig McSweeney
A compassionate view of dealing with grief after losing a child.

Saying Goodbye by Zoe Clark-Coates
A 90-day action plan on how to get through the days following the loss of a pregnancy or child.

Empty Cradle, Broken Heart by Deborah Davis
Surviving the death of your baby.

Ask Me His Name by Elle Wright
Learning to live and laugh again after the death of her baby.

When Things Fall Apart Heart Advice for Difficult Times by Pema Chodron.

The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk.

Staring at the Sun by Irvin D.Yalom.

The Healing Choice by Candace De Puy PH.D. ,& Dana Dovitz PH.D.

Choice Processing and Resolution by Trudy M. Johnston.

It’s OK That You Are Not OK, Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture That Doesn’t Understand by Megan Devine

Holding Hope with Empty Arms ed. by Sheryl Roy, Emily Mullins & Miriam Rendell (4Louis charity)