Over the years we’ve asked what parents and families do to remember or honour their children on special occasions or even just on a day to day basis.

We’ve had so many beautiful ideas and ways families mark their missing children.

Lighting a candle is one of the most common and simplest ways. As described by one of our mothers, “the lit, flickering flame of the candle to us, represents our daughter. Like breaths being taken or a beat of her heart, it makes us feel that she is present and counted in our lives”.

What things do you do to remember your child?